Parents

Parents are the first relation in your life which you come to know after birth. Matha Pitha Guru and Deivam, in this sequence also parents are kept in first and second position. Parents are the helping hands in every problem of your life.

                    
Mother undergoes the most crucial part of life when she is carrying a baby in her womb. She starts taking care of the child right from her womb and continues it till she dies. She has suffered the pain equivalent to 20 bone fractures just to bring you in this world. She protects you from the scolding and beatings of dad and gives her secret savings just for your movie plans.

Father is the first person to stand with you in your critical situations. He earns and works hard just to fulfil your basic needs and special demands. He is a savoir and protector for his daughter. He is the role model and best friend for his son. 

Right from the birth of the child, parents give up everything just to bring up the child with all sophisticated facilities, good education and cultural values. They try to give their kids everything which is best like good food, best school, best clothes, best college etc. Even when they scold you there love behind it. They want you to learn right thing and that’s why they scold you.

They take care of every single need of the child. They help them in studies, play with them, teach all good things and keep them away from all wrong and evil things. In today’s world where we talk about generation gap, parents try to learn new things to walk with you. They try to keep themselves updated with the new trends and technologies. They support you financially, morally and emotionally.

They are the most selfless creation of god. They do everything for us but never expect anything in return. They just want us to see success in life and achieve all your dreams. But sometimes you tend to feel that it is one way route but the fact is you cannot clap with single hand. You should always remember that you parents are also growing with you.

Though they don’t expect anything from you but it’s your duty to give them everything that they need. You should take care of them in their old days with the same love and care with which they took care of you. Life can be very busy but spending time with you parents can give you the happiness which no other success can give.

We always have the confidence that, however difficult the situation is being, mothers lap is always there to soothe and fathers hand is always there to help.

Recreate your life…!!

Writing diary is one of the most beautiful things to do. It is like scripting your life. Diary can be like a best friend which can share all the phases of your life and your top secrets which you never would want to share with anyone.. 

It helps in a lot of things which you experience in day to day life.

There can be many kinds of incidents and moments happening in life everyday like happy, sad, scary, stressful and embarrassing. Each kind of incident teaches you a new thing and gives you a new experience. Writing it down and keeping it safe for the rest of your life is something worth to treasure.

Writing a happy moment brings out all positive energy in you and increases your happiness and when you read it again in future brings a broad smile on your face. When you write down a sad moment, it decreases your pain in the same way as it relieves you, when you share it with a friend or someone close.

Moments like standing first in your class, graduating, first date, first job, proposing to your dream girl or boy, marrying your love, taking your new born baby in your arms, achieving your dream etc. are some occasion in life which are to be cherished for whole life. The more you read and recreate them, the more it increases your happiness.

Pen downing a scary or stressful moment can drain out the stress in you and light empties your mind. When you read it again in future can help you make better decisions in future. Also when you face the same kind of situations again can give you more strength to tackle the situation in a bold and wise way. Writing an embarrassing situation can help you overcome your shy feeling and make you a bold person.

Happenings like bad dreams, unsatisfied job, work pressure, unfulfilled dreams, love failure, feeling sick etc. are such occasions where you are high in emotions. You have to write them down and read it later to learn new things from them and also to control your emotions and channel your strengths towards your progress.

Psychologically writing can increase the level of patience in you and brings clarity in your thoughts. It can help identifying your goals in life and makes you realize what actually you want from life. It helps tracking yourself, your growth, success, failure and lessons.

Personally it helps you connect with yourself and your insight. It is a kind of meditation wherein you can get peace of mind by emptying your mind on the paper. It helps you grow as a better person. It improves your calligraphy and your writing skills too.

Medically it helps controlling your anxiety and blood pressure. It can help to process and communicate complex ideas effectively. It can also help you memorize important information and brainstorm new ideas. It is just like; you don’t know an answer in an exam still you come up with new ideas and points to fill your answer sheet.  

Apart from you, it can help someone else who is reading your diary to understand you better. He or she can judge you as a human being and can guess your reactions in various situations. It can help them handle some critical situations which involves you.

Eventually diary writing is just like replicating your life. It helps recall and relive all the past incidents which will either leave a smile on your face or tears in your eyes or both together……!!!

Count the PLUS..!!

You live life only once, but if you do it right... Once is enough.. :) 

There is a lot more to it. Life is not mechanical to just run it like a machine, it is emotional and sensitive and we have to handle it with care. There are many small situations in life which you tend to ignore and move on but they do have their own value. once when you realize it, you make our life complete.

Try counting all plus in your life, the more plus you find, the more positive your life becomes.

When your mom wakes you up with coffee is a plus or when you wake up your loved one is a plus. That small good morning and good night kiss on your forehead from your spouse is a plus. Early morning sky and chirping of the birds is a plus. sleeping in your mom's lap after a long tiring day is a plus. Talking to your dad is a plus. Fighting with your sibling is a plus. Trying a new dish is a plus. Cooking for your spouse or kid's favorite dish and giving surprise is a plus.



Making new friends is plus.Hanging out with your friends is a plus. Gossiping and chit chatting is a plus. Getting a text from a friend after a long time is a plus. Fighting with your friend and apologizing at once is a plus. Making your lover wait for you is a plus. Holding hands and walking bare foot on chill grass or beach with your love is a plus.






Getting drenched in rain is a plus. Eating ice cream or having hot coffee in rain is a plus. Just listening to those pitter patter of rain drops in silence is a plus. Getting that extra 10min sleep in winter season is a plus.





Getting appreciation from your boss is a plus. Solving a problem in first attempt is a plus or taking a whole day but finally solving a problem is a plus.




Giving a chocolate to an unknown kid and seeing him/her smile is a plus. Forgetting your age and playing with unknown gang of small kids is a plus. Helping an unknown person is a plus. Smiling at every person you know is a plus. A kiss from a small kid is a plus.



You were born is a plus. You are able to feel and see all the above things in life is a plus.
All these things may not be a great achievement but when you think about them you get a smile on your face automatically.

Every small thing in life matters. Life is not just to study, work, earn money and die. Cherishing every moment of your life can make your life beautiful.


Just remember that you study to work and you work to earn money but not at the cost of your life. Life is not monochrome, it is your wish to fill colors of your choice in it and make it colorful.

God gave us only one life and live it to the fullest. Do all crazy, funny, sad, embarrassing, happy, good, bad and worst things because you wont get it again !!!!!!!!!